If you want to know how to getting ur ex back, you have to first make sure that you want to reconcile with your former love for the right reasons. It's very easy to fall into the trap of getting lonely and deciding that the only thing for you to do is to get back with your ex. Unfortunately, if that is your motive the relationship has just as little chance of working out this time as it did the first time.
If you focused on getting ur ex back and really wanting to make it work this time, you will have to be willing to take some time and make some changes, this process isn't something that will happen overnight. First, think honestly about what the problems in your relationship really were. Also think about the part you played in the problems. Were you the biggest problem? Now, be honest ladies! If the majority of the stress and strife in your relationship came from you, you will have to be the one that does a lot of changing if you hope to make things work this time.
Once you've made some serious changes it's time to get a hold of your ex and ask them if they want to get together. Keep things casual. If you make the meeting all about getting ur ex back and make it out to be some big reconciliation event you're likely to scare them off. Just keep things calm and friendly and let your ex see that you've changed. Actions do speak louder than words so it won't be enough to just tell your ex you've changed, you'll need to show them too.
By showing your ex that you've changed and that you are mature enough to face the problems of your relationship head on and make some changes, that will go a long way to them being willing to give your relationship a second chance and you getting ur ex back.
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