Get Ur Ex BF back in 3 Steps

So you've broken up recently with your boyfriend and you're wondering how to get ur ex bf back. If you're depressed right now and feeling like a total loser, I know the feeling. And these feelings can make you want to call your ex boyfriend and beg him to come back. But resist that urge, because it will probably make things worse by chasing your ex bf away even further.

Do you feel like calling your ex? Don't! Do you feel like staying inside and crying all day long? Don't! What you should actually do at this point is the opposite of what you are feeling. Instead, follow these three basic steps and you'll start the ball rolling to get ur ex bf back.


Step 1 - Accept the Break Up!
First and foremost, you need to accept that the break up is happening. Tell your ex that you are okay with it, and allow the "moving on" process to begin. When you do this, it will eliminate a large amount of the tension and stress that is being experienced by all. Your ex boyfriend will need time to think about the relationship, and this will give you time as well to consider your options. If your ex realizes that he still loves you, he will find a way to get back with you.

Step 2 - Do not contact your ex bf!
Do not make an effort to contact your ex boyfriend right now. You should cut communication off with him so that there can be some "thinking time". This may seem counter-intuitive, but by cutting communication off you are signaling that you have already moved on and that you are doing just fine without him. And that always makes them think twice. It will also allow them to have some time to miss you again. When you can separate yourself from your ex bf and calm your nerves, that may be the best time to let them realize how important you were to them.

Step 3 - Plan Ahead for the Get Together
Once you have completed the two steps mentioned just above, you can start working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and what should be said when you do meet up again. This will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is still a chance to get ur ex bf back.

These are only 3 basic steps on how to get ur ex bf back and it can be a bit more complicated than that. But this is a good place to start and will improve your chances to get ur ex bf back.